Though organizations like the American Academy of Pediatrics recommend that parents wait until children are old enough to make the decision for themselves, baby ear piercing is a common practice across many cultures. When cultural values come into conflict with professional consensus, it can be hard to navigate. So when is it okay to pierce a baby’s or toddler’s ears? There are a few key factors to consider.
Parents should know that the AAP’s recommendation is less an indicator that infant ear piercing puts children in immediate danger, and more an effort to encourage parents to let children make decisions about their bodies. Another benefit of waiting until children are older is that they can care for their piercings, which may help prevent infection, but as long as parents take on that responsibility for their infants, baby ear piercing is generally safe. Basically, the age when you can safely pierce a baby’s ears is around 2 months, as long as moms and dads follow a few rules.
Infant ear piercing at 2 months is arguably an ideal time because it coincides with the first round of vaccinations, including the tetanus vaccine. Although that’s a comforting precautionary measure, there is very little risk a baby would get tetanus even without the vaccine.
“Babies can’t localize pain, so even though it might be a little bit painful, they can’t reach up and touch their ears and pull the earring out,” says pediatrician Dr. Norina Ocampo. “The pain usually goes away within a couple of days.”
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Older babies, around 5 or 6 months old, however, can localize pain. They may be more apt to tug and pull at the earrings. That’s made even more problematic if their fingers and hands are dirty. And the older a child is, the more likely they will be stressed or frightened when it comes to ear piercing, even if they have made their own decision to have the procedure done.
“These 4- and 5-year-olds want their ears pierced, but then they’re crying because they’re afraid of the pain,” says Ocampo. “I think it’s better to do it as a baby when they don’t know, and then it’s done.”
Ocampo notes that some pediatricians are willing to pierce a baby’s ears in the safety of their office. However, if parents can’t find a doctor to do it, they should insist on several guidelines wherever the piercing occurs. That means not only a clean environment but also 24-karat medical-grade gold-plated studs. This will help prevent infection and allergic reactions.
“You will never have a reaction to pure gold,” Ocampo stresses. “People who are allergic are not allergic to the gold — 14-karat and 18-karat are not 100 percent pure, so they add other alloys like nickel. It’s usually the nickel they have an allergic reaction to. Twenty-four-karat gold is pure gold.” Who knew babies had such expensive taste?
Barring an allergic reaction, once a child’s ears are pierced, they will remain so permanently if the earrings are kept in for at least a week after piercing. During that time, parents can prevent rare cases of infection by cleaning around the earring with alcohol and rotating the studs in their holes twice daily.
Signs of infection include redness and tenderness, and possibly a pus-filled discharge, but Ocampo is quick to put parents at ease. “There’s nothing in that area that has bad bacteria that’s going to cause a bad infection,” she says.
At the end of the day, baby ear piercing isn’t what it once was and guidelines have come a long way since Dr. Ocampo was a newborn. “A little old Italian lady from up the street came to my house, put ice cubes on the earlobes, heated up a needle on the gas stove, and pierced it right through,” Ocampo recalls. Today, despite the AAP’s concerns, baby ear piercing is “actually very, very safe.” And besides, what better way to show off your baby’s cute little ears than with 24K gold accents?