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How to Make Damn Sure You’re Not Guilty of Mansplaining

ByJeremy Brown

While it’s easy to identify a mansplainer, it takes self-awareness to identify when you’re guilty of the behavior. Here's what to keep in mind.

Self

Why Dark, Embarrassing Thoughts Randomly Pop Into Your Head

ByVirginia Pelley

Intrusive thoughts can happen to almost everyone. This is why they occur and what to do about them.

Looking Back

What I Wish My Dad Did More When I Was Little

ByMatt Christensen

There’s always more to do.

Looking Back

What I Wish I Did With My Kids More Often When They Were Little

ByMatt Christensen

A dozen dads-who’ve-been-there tell us what they would’ve done differently.

Good To Know

7 Big Signs You’re Being Defensive

ByJeremy Brown

Only by understanding the signs can you begin to root out the behavior.

Think Happy Thoughts

How To Keep “Does Everyone Hate Me?” Thoughts At Bay

ByAshley Abramson

Do you sometimes find yourself wondering if everyone dislikes you? You're not alone.

Self

7 Small Tactics To Help Improve Your Self-Discipline

BySteve Calechman

Trying to stick to a new goal? Adopt a new habit? This is the advice worth remembering.

There You Are

The Hardest Thing About A Father’s Legacy? The Truth.

ByPete Croatto

When writing his new memoir In the Early Times, Tad Friend discovered new, hard truths about his father that forced him to reckon with preconceived notions — and himself.

Change Your Perspsective

How To Stop All-Or-Nothing Thinking In Its Tracks

ByAdam Bulger

Thinking in extremes is at best unhelpful and worst harmful. This is how to help shift your perspective.

Fight the Funk

7 Ways To Snap Out Of ‘Parenting Fog’

ByAaron Stern

Feeling foggy? Here are a few simple tweaks to help get yourself back up to speed.

You Got This

7 Things to Do When Life Feels Out of Control

ByAshley Abramson

This is how you gain confidence in the midst of chaos.

Not Gonna Happen

7 Extremely Clear Ways to Tell Someone “No”

BySteve Calechman

Listen, you can't say yes to everything. Here's how to say no to people without it coming across the wrong way.

Good to Know

What I’m Glad I Knew About Myself Before I Became a Dad, According to 12 Men

ByMatt Christensen

“I threw out all of the toxicity and ego society places on men, and decided to be an honest, loving father that my family could be proud of.”

Charm Offensive

The Secret to Being More Charming (Without Being Obnoxious)

BySteve Calechman

Displaying authentic charm is easier than you think.

Life

The Difference Between a Confident Man and a Self-Centered Jerk

ByAshley Abramson

While they may seem similar, confidence and egotism are fundamentally different — and that difference is crucial to remember. 

Life

How to Set Boundaries With the People in Your Life (And Not Be a Jerk About It)

ByAshley Abramson

It's an important skill to learn.