Baby teething is legendarily stressful for parents. Baby teething symptoms are blamed for everything, including changes in demeanor, attitude, temperature, skin integrity, and even loose bowel movements. The perils of teething have even inspired an entire industry built around teething remedies and teething toys – each with varying degrees of efficacy. Every parent deals with the process, and many spread anecdotes about what supposedly works. But Dr. Sean Boynes is a National Children’s Oral Health Foundation Dentist of Distinction and has medical science on his side. He recommends consulting science early.
“When your child begins teething, the most important thing you can do at this time is establish a dental home,” he advises. “Preventive care is key when it comes to oral health, which is why we recommend babies see a dentist when the first tooth appears. It also gives you and the dentist a chance to develop an ongoing relationship and personalized care to ensure there are no signs of particular concern.”
Quick Guide for Parents with Teething Babies
- Even the first tooth needs a dentist: baby teeth are temporary, but they are still important. Parents should establish a dental home when the first tooth appears.
- Teething makes a baby cranky, not sick: there’s no evidence that fevers or diarrhea are caused by teething, but it can make babies irritable.
- The later the tooth, the tougher it is: the first few teeth are sharp and erupt easily; later, flatter teeth are more painful and harder to relieve due to their position.
- Chewing works best: there are a number of remedies for teething pain, but just letting the kids chomp down on a wet washcloth is best. Some remedies, like gels that contain benzocaine, may be dangerous.
- Tooth care is for life: teething will end, but oral hygiene doesn’t. Good habits in childhood will carry through adulthood.
A dentist can help parents filter the good info from the bad. It can also be pretty reassuring for parents to have a professional guide them through what to expect. Teething gets blamed for more than it causes, but it can still be pretty uncomfortable. “It is very important for parents to learn to recognize normal timing and symptoms of teething,” says Boynes. “It might be the reason your baby is fussy, drooling excessively, particularly irritable, interested in chewing on hard items, or has tender and swollen gums.”
Baby Teething Charts and Order of Eruption
Baby teeth, milk teeth, primary teeth, deciduous teeth – all these terms refer to the same thing. The first few chompers to appear are the lower incisors (the bottom two front teeth) that emerge as early as four months. They are not particularly dramatic, because they are very sharp and erupt easily, and they are cute as hell because babies are starting to get good at smiling. Then come the top two front teeth.
The remaining teeth emerge from front to back; this baby teething chart can help parents see what is going on with their baby’s teeth and when. The specific timing is determined by genetics, but by age three most kids will have the full set. All in all, parents can expect two and a half years of low-key irritability and unreliable sleep.
How to Treat Baby Teething Symptoms
There is any number of teething relief products lining the pharmacy shelves, but a recent FDA consumer update should give any parent pause about over-the-counter treatments containing benzocaine. The most straightforward (and probably most effective) is just to let them chew, says Boynes. They’re going to chomp anyway, so parents might as well give them something appropriate to chew on.
“You can wet and wring a clean washcloth, place it in the refrigerator or freezer to chill, then let your baby chew on it,” says Boynes. “The cold helps soothe the pain, too. You can also massage your baby’s gums and provide them with safe chewing toys.”
How to Care for Baby Teeth
Teething is a process that does eventually end, but dental care doesn’t. Baby teeth are temporary, but they come in at developmentally important times. They emerge in time for the baby to start solid foods. They are crucial to proper speech development. And they last longer than parents may think, so cavities or other problems shouldn’t just be shrugged off.
“Caring for baby teeth means caring for your child’s teeth until they are age 11 or 12, which would be a long time for anyone to live with health issues associated with tooth decay,” says Boynes. “Once teeth emerge, parents should begin brushing twice daily using a small dab of fluoridated toothpaste and a soft toothbrush with a small head. Losing baby teeth too early can actually impact the development of permanent teeth.”