Male friendship is in crisis. Got your attention? Good. Because if you’re a man, you probably immediately knew there’s truth there. American men who view themselves as having “no close friends” have quintupled over the last 30 years, and only 15% of men consider themselves as having 10 or more close friends (compared to 40% in 1990). There are consequences to this decline. Men with friends are fitter, are happier, live longer, make more money, and are less anxious. Let’s face it: They also have more fun. So what to do? Let’s start with what we’ve got. Let’s celebrate male friendships, look closely at what makes ours tick, and then stop thinking so hard and go grab a beer with a friend — for your own good.
The Dumb, Beautiful, Singular Chaos Of Close Male Friendship
So many close men push each other — up mountains and into the night, past the point of comfort and down the rabbit hole. Just one question: Why?
The Best Bromances Tell Us A Lot About Male Friendship Today
Are you a John or a Paul? A Kirk or a Spock? A Harold or a Kumar? Is that even the right question?
The Real Reason Men Struggle With Friendship
Making friends is something we learn how to do when we’re still in diapers. So why are grown men so bad at it? Dr. Geoffrey Greif knows — and we should all listen.
9 Ways To Make Friends, Keep Friends, And Be A Better Friend Yourself
Want to live longer and be healthier? Have more quality friendships. It really is that simple.
8 Great, Unexpected Trips To Take With The Guys
Touring the gas station fried chicken joints of the south. Renting an ice shanty in the middle of winter. It’s time to get your friends together and make some memories.
Can’t We All Just Hug Each Other?
I was one of many who were taught, implicitly or not, that men shouldn’t express themselves that way. I’m slowly learning how to embrace a different path.
This One Habit Is The Key To Better Friendships
It's no secret that many men struggle to maintain or even build strong friendships. Bucking the trend is essential — and easier if you do this.
How To Call Out A Friend's Bad Behavior
Yes, you should do it. No, they might not respond well to it. Yes, it should still be done.
How To Vent To Your Friends Without Bringing Them Down
There’s a fine line between venting and becoming a burden. Here’s how to walk it.
How I Rebuilt The Friendships That Faded When I Became a Dad
Losing touch doesn’t have to last forever.
How To Be (A Little) More Vulnerable With Your Friends
Learning to delve a bit deeper with your buddies has big benefits for everyone involved.
How To Confront A Friend About Worrisome Behavior
You’ve noticed a pattern and are concerned. But this is tricky territory. Here’s how to prepare for the conversation.
Chris Gethard Talks With Lonely Dads. Somehow, We All Feel Better Now
The comedian sat down with his wildest friends to talk about their transition to fatherhood. Turns out they’re all less fun than they used to be — and that’s alright with them (sort of).
How My Friends And I Stay In Touch Now That We're All Dads
Fantasy leagues. Goldeneye tournaments. Recipe groups. This is what helps these men stay connected amidst the chaos of parenting.
What I Wish I Knew About Friendships When I Was Younger, According to 12 Men
“Your friends update and change based on the season you're in."
