If you’re not talking about sex, you’re likely not all that good at it. In a healthy relationship, conversations about sex should be a regular occurrence. This means having open and honest discussions about desires, intimacy, frequency, likes, dislikes, and more.
Meaning that, per research, women in heterosexual relationships tend to achieve regular orgasms far less than their male partners. Many factors apply, but if you’re in a heterosexual relationship, this is an important reminder to focus on her pleasure more (remember what we said about foreplay?)