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Planning For Your Death Has Never Been Easier. Get. It. Done.

No, we don't want to think about it either. But estate planning is essential for your family's well-being. And it's never been simpler.

When you become a parent, you become a caretaker, a steward of your family. Part of that immense responsibility includes preparing for a time when you will no longer be around. Parents, and fathers in particular, are expected to have everything handled, to leave no loose ends when they’re gone. That’s why estate planning is so important. The process of getting all your affairs in order — writing a will, explaining what you intend to hand down, who will be the guardians for your children — makes sure everyone is taken care of when you’re gone.

Estate planning is crucial. It offers peace of mind. But many shrug it off as a non-necessity. In fact, only four out of every ten Americans have any plans for their future. There are a number of reasons for this, some logical (the estate planning process, which includes lawyers and decisions and money, seems overwhelming) others less so (If I prepare for my death, I will die, the magical thinking goes). There are also far more complicated reasons, including bad past experiences with parent’s estates.

In addition, many parents believe that when they die, everything will just be figured out. (Consider Andrew, a father who told us “I don’t care what happens after I die. And I should not have a say in what other people do after I’m dead. They can figure out what they want, I won’t want anything because I’ll be dead.”) This dangerous thinking as when you die without a will— what’s known as “intestate” — your property will be divided up according to the laws of your state. Those vary wildly. At the very least, this will create headaches and complications for your surviving family members, leading to conflict as everyone tries to divvy up your estate equitably.

In short, it’s in every parent’s best interest to get everything sorted. The good news is that it’s even less complicated to make this happen thanks to the Uniform Electronic Wills Act, which passed earlier this year. According to a statement from the Uniform Law Commission, which approved the Act, the Uniform Electronic Wills Act, “permits testators to execute an electronic will and allows probate courts to give electronic wills legal effect.  Most documents that were traditionally printed on paper can now be created, transferred, signed, and recorded in electronic form.”

In other words? You can complete your estate planning — writing a will, deeming guardians — almost entirely online.

As necessity is the mother of invention, there are now several companies that specialize in online estate planning. One such company, Trust & Will, allows people to legally and legitimately file estate plans, trusts, and wills online quickly and comparatively inexpensively.

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Cody Barbo, founder and CEO of Trust & Will said that the genesis for the company came from his own dilemmas when considering estate planning for his family.

“In my mind, door number one was go to an attorney and spend thousands of dollars on something that seems far too complex for my wife and I at this stage in our life,” he says. “And door number two was to go to an online legal marketplace and get something really off the shelf that wasn’t going to be a recurring experience.”

So he created Trust & Will. The site offers a grid of options, from “I own a home and business” and “I have more than $100k in assets” to “I’m married” and “I have kids under 18”. Select what apply to you and you’ll be met with a recommended plan. The “Guardian” plan for instance allows parents to name who the guardian of their children will be if something were to happen to the both of them. That costs $49 and can be filled out in less time than one of those “What Does Your Preferred Grilled Cheese Say About You?” quizzes. Once you’ve finished and paid, you print the document, get it signed and notarized, and you’re good to go.

There are myriad options, however. Choose “Marriage” and “Kids Under 18” from the categories and it will present you with a Will-based Estate plan that costs $129. Choose it, and you can customize a last will and testament that includes state-specific legal documents.

This isn’t to say that the many, many estate planning decisions parents need to make any less daunting. The estate planning process requires big choices. But having the paperwork available online does streamline the homework portion of it.

Barbo sees his company as a necessary step in the business of estate planning, and one that needs to happen if the industry is going to remain competitive in an age where nearly every facet of people’s lives exist in digital space. Trust & Will is there to make it so that parents don’t need to take off work, coordinate schedules, and deal with all the paperwork the standard process requires. It also makes it harder to find an excuse for not doing it.

As a father, Barbo admits that the reasons for putting off estate planning are very real and understandable. He does hope, however, that Trust & Will will help demystify the process a bit and make it feel less threatening.

In addition, he hopes that parents will keep in mind the biggest reason for embarking on this process. “You’re doing it for your kids,” he says. “It’s a selfless act of love that you’re doing this for your family and to preserve your legacy.”